Three months engaged and seeing his ex girlfriend.
Date: Mon, 30 Oct 1995 15:02:29 -0500 (EST)
From: Justin Hall <jahall@cyborgasmic.com>
To: Frank
Subject: Re: (no subject)On Fri, 27 Oct 1995, Frank wrote:
> Dear someone,
> > MY EX-GIRLFRIEND AND I ARE SERIOUSLY TALKING AGAIN. WE
> BOTH HAVE FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER, BUT IM ENGAGED. THE GIRL
> IM ENGAGED TO HAS ONLY BEEN MY FIANCE FOR THREE MONTHS. BUT I
> TRULY HAVE MORE GOING FOR ME WITH MY EX-GIRLFRIEND. WHAT SOULD
> I DO?Slow the fuck down.Engaged after three months and seeing your ex-girlfriend?
Remember why you guys broke up. Have you really matured enough to head back into things?
Familiarity is comforting. But you will really hate yourself if you ditch your fiance to head back into hell.
Some people are meant to be together - in spite of splits and breakups.
It sounds to me like you need to be alone for a while.
Maybe you should go on a long trip for a long while. Get away from duelling relationships and confusing attraction. Learn to love yourself, and you will be far better equipped to figure out - who do I want to be with?
cuz there is an answer - the answer is you.
best Frank,
Justin
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