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Date: Fri, 21 Jul 95 20:47:07 -0700
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I have been seeing my best friends Grandmother for thirteen months and have recently sleeped with his Mother. This has become a bad situation with both the Mother and the grandmother telling me they love me and want to be with me. How can I get out of this without hurting them and also my best friend. I am 16 and worried. Please help........
dear 16 and worried

Wow. Pretty impressive.

That is quite a briar patch.

I suggest a long trip, remove yourself from the situation - from those two women - for long enough that their desire might cool a bit. From then on, have your friend visit you at your house, and keep an eye on your mother!

If you have been sleeping with both of them you must have some lust in your heart. Ask yourself whether your best friendship is worth the sex relationships with the other women. If you prefer your friend, or you prefer not to be in that situation,

you must not have sex with them again.

If you've decided you really want to "get out of this" you can't lead them to thinking you're involved with them sexually any further. Tell them you just can't do it, and don't do it. Or, go on a long trip.

16, huh? I was a virgin then. You're cutting quite a mean swath! I want to hear where you're at when you are twenty-one.

Let me know how it turns out.

Best of luck,
it sounds like you have a remarkable future ahead of you.

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